After 11 Months, Am I Too Feral for Polite Society?

Bulldog by Sally Wiener GrottaThis past Friday, almost exactly eleven months from the day I locked the door of my home against the Covid-infected world, I received my first vaccine shot. I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel, and it isn’t an oncoming train. I have started to imagine what it will be like to be out among other people. Yes, I will still have to be masked and appropriately social distanced. But with some people, like my sister once she has her vaccinations, I will actually be able to share a human touch and loving hugs.

The problem is… well, I’m worried. I think I may now be too feral for polite society.  All signs of civilization have been stripped from me. I’m a wild woman of nature, living out here in the Pocono Mountains with all the other feral animals of the woods.

My hair is wild and long, reaching past my shoulder blades. I walk around in Daniel’s old baggy pants and big sweaters. Even though I’ve lost some weight, it’s going to be almost painful to wear skinny jeans or nicely form-fitting blazers. Forget about bras or shoes other than comfy slippers or old broken-in sneakers. If my clothes from yesterday pass the sniff test, why not wear them again… and again?

When I was a child, I was indoctrinated in proper table manners. I would no more have used the wrong fork for shrimp than I would use a straw to sip wine. Now, determined to not leave behind any of my delicious homemade soups, I slurp the remnant juices directly from the bowl.

I talk to myself at all hours of the day and night. For the first few months, I maintained the fiction that I was talking with my dog Shayna. Sure, she does react to the sound of my voice. But the truth is I just need to hear a human voice, even if it’s only mine.

A month and a half from now, after I’ve had my second vaccination and waited the two weeks for it to take effect, and I finally unlock the door to my home, how will I remember the proper way to behave so that society doesn’t shun me or send me packing back up to the Poconos? Heck, how will I remember to close the door to the bathroom?

Will children point at me as I walk toward them on a city sidewalk? And will their parents take them in hand, crossing the street to avoid the crazy lady? Will I embarrass my young nephews and convince their mother that it’s best not to invite Aunt Sally to their birthday parties? Will even Shayna cringe, and try to pull me in the other direction, when I spot someone I know just a block away?

Or will everyone nod in recognition when I commit yet another faux pas? Heck, we’ve all been living locked away from polite society.

Then again, maybe I’m the only one who has gone completely feral.


8 comments on “After 11 Months, Am I Too Feral for Polite Society?

  • Peggy OConnor says:

    I see no need to alter a life of careless comfort pre-vaccination. After my jabs, I went to the CVS clad in my regular housedress/nightgown wearing an old pair of walking shoes with holes in the toe. Others were there, 6 feet apart. I spied slippers, holey sweaters, shawls, and tangly wild hair.

    This is how the roaring twenties begins.

  • Thank you for sharing your heart, Sally! You’re definitely not alone in trying to navigate this new reality that we’re living in, and accepting that things may never look the same again. But as we step out of this isolation we’ll adapt, learn and hopefully find a new normal.

  • You are definitely not the only feral, wild woman of the woods. I wear the same ratty felted wool vest nearly every day. It has clay dried on it and plenty of dog hair. 🙂

  • My love, I’m willing to bet that thanks to this quarantine, NO ONE will ever be afraid to wear baggy pants, no bra, and the same clothes day after day. We have now learned that what passes for “society” is the worst kind of affectation! I shall embrace you braless, with shaggy hair, baggy pants (on their third day of wear), and all the love in my heart pent up for the past year!!!!


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